After fixing my buddy's bike for the tenth time, I'm rethinking free labor

Last week, my cousin brought his mountain bike with a bent derailleur and worn brakes, expecting a free fix. I love helping out, as it strengthens our bond and lets me share my passion. However, this is the third time this month, and I'm feeling stretched thin. Parts cost money, and my free time is scarce. Some mechanics argue that free repairs for loved ones are just part of the trade. Others believe we should charge something, even if it's just for parts, to respect our skills. I see both sides, but it's getting hard to balance. Where do you draw the line with friends and family?

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riley_schmidt7mo ago

When does helping out start to hurt you?

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fisher.terry7mo ago

Honestly, when it makes them stop trying, @riley_schmidt.

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emery197mo ago

Wait, so charging for parts means they'll stop trying? That's a messed up way to see it, @fisher.terry. If your buddy keeps bringing you a broken bike, he isn't trying to fix it himself at all. You're just enabling that. A real friend would at least offer to pay for the new brake pads or give you a six-pack for your time. Otherwise you're just a free tool he owns. My time after work is for me, not for his third free tune-up this month. Where's the respect in that?

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