I never saw the harm in recipe borrowing until my best friend stopped talking to me

I always figured recipes were fair game, you know, like if someone gave you a cake recipe, you could do whatever with it. So I took my buddy's secret brownie recipe, the one her grandma passed down, and baked it for a bake sale at work. Everyone loved them, and I even sold out fast, which felt like a huge win. But then she saw my post about it online and got really quiet. At first I didn't get it, I mean, they were just brownies, right? But she explained how that recipe was special to her family, and I felt pretty bad. It made me think about how baking isn't just about the food, it's about the stories behind it. Now I make sure to ask first and always say where I got the idea from, because a baking win shouldn't cost you a friend.

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lopez.uma1mo ago

Wait, you actually sold her family recipe at a bake sale?

the_grant1mo ago

Yeah, "sold her family recipe" is the part that changes it. I heard a food writer say once that a secret recipe isn't just a list of ingredients, it's a piece of family history. Passing it around for free is one thing, but making money off it cuts different. It turns a shared story into a product.

sarah8291mo ago

Wait, did you read the original post? She didn't sell the recipe itself. She just sold cookies made from it at a school bake sale. That's a pretty big difference.